She's Just Like You: A Bi-curious Woman's Guide to Pleasuring Another Woman

Are you a bi-curious woman who has mostly been monogamous with men? Are you a part of the swinger or non-monogamous lifestyle? Do you want to explore your sexuality with other women but do not know where to begin?

If so, you are not alone! Lots of women feel totally lost when it comes to exploring their bisexuality.

That is why I am here to help! I am a sex-positive, bisexual woman who has years of experience dating both men and women, so I know what it feels like to explore another woman’s body for the first time.

Initially, it may feel intimidating to connect intimately with another woman. That is why I break it down into these four easy steps:

Step 1: Build Connection.

Remember, she is a woman, just like you. Most of us women want to feel safe and connected to our sexual partners. Connection starts with the eyes. Be sure to make lots of eye contact with her to establish a sense of closeness between the both of you. Take the time to ask her questions and get to know her a little. Ask her what she likes or dislikes and whether she has been with another woman. This will help ease the tension and create a more relaxed atmosphere.

Step 2: Sensual Touch

Sexual pleasure starts with anticipation. Before diving into genital touch, start slowly touching the rest of her body. Take the time to appreciate her curves and the softness of her skin. Kiss her gently and let your bodies become familiar with each other’s. This will build arousal and heighten desire.

Step 3: Nips and Clits

After you are both warmed up and feeling good about each other, you can move on to the erogenous zones. Nipples are a great place to start. Massage her breasts, caress her nipples with your fingers or tongue, or even suck or nibble on her nipples. Then you can do the same with her clit. Finding the clit can be challenging at first, it is certainly smaller than a penis. Just remember where your clit is and try to find it on her. If in doubt, you can always ask her. You can rub her clit with your fingers, lick it with your tongue, or use your mouth to suck on it.

Step 4: Penetration Station

After sufficiently turning her on with the previous steps, you can explore penetrating her with your fingers or toys. When I get to this step, I always look for the G-spot. This is a spot in the vaginal canal that may feel a bit like a sponge. For many women, stimulating the G-spot and the clitoris at the same time is incredibly pleasurable. But every woman is different, so to be safe, ask what she likes the most!

Starting with these four easy steps will likely lead to the path of orgasm, but don’t forget the golden rule: Consent is Sexy. The best way to guarantee a good time is to ask what she likes and go with the flow.

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